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The first ingredient to a good first impression is your clothing and general appearance.
You should be well dressed and groomed when you meet her.
Before you read this article please read the warnings
Please be warned: Giving out personal information to strangers can be dangerous. Never meet strangers for the first time alone and always let someone else know where you are going. Always meet in a public place, and always let someone know when there is any change of plan.
First impressions’ is very imported, and will set the tone of the whole experience. If the first impression is bad the tone will start at a low and may never recover.
The first ingredient to a good first impression is your clothing and general appearance. You should be well dressed and groomed when you meet her for the first time. Do not go over board unless the occasion calls for it, you clothing must be, neat and appropriate. Make sure your hair is well combed and that you are clean shaven, if you are not growing a beard or mustache. The last step to grooming is, and by no means less imported is, is make sure you smell good, but do not drown you body in it.
If you are a female there is a few imported things you can do to grab you would be mans attention. Let’s start with the make up, do not over do it, if he wanted to meet a portrait he would have visited the art museum. A few tricks that works well with men is: if you have light colour eyes is always a good idea to help him to notice it and glossy lip ice always make you look a lot more kissable.
When it comes to clothing, dress neatly and appropriate, if you are going to the beach don’t put on a fancy dress. A skirt, is secret code in male circles, that she is interested, and if appropriate always a good idea. If you have cleavage, wearing a boob tjoop or a low cute top is sure to catch his attention.
Finally, make sure you are well shaven, groomed and smell good, and do not over do it with the perfume. Last thing you need is to smell like a cheap hooker.
Now that you are groomed to kill, some imported things to remember when you are standing face to face. The guy must always bring a small gift, please note SMALL gift. Like candy or a flower. If your gift is too big or expensive, you may give her the impression that you are trying to buy her and she is not for sale. It could also open the door for gold diggers, to take advantage of your kindness.
Greet her friendly and if she wants to give you hugs do not shrink away, I repeat do not shrink away. Woman does not take rejection well. It is always a good idea to give her an honest complement; this will start your time together on a very good note.
Remember, never to stand with your arms folded, because this means you are not available.
If you are invited into her homestead, great everyone there, because later she will ask them for there opinion, and belief it or not, if you have not swept her off her feet completed, there opinions will safe or end you. Even if there opinions are completely missed guided or self-centered.
Yes, yes I know, most of the woman will say that money does not matter. This is a lie, money does matter. An imported thing you must remember is, when she goes on in search of a mate, she is looking for someone that can at least take care of himself. Do not go around and insist on paying for everything, if she wants to pay let her, but never ever show up with out any cash even if you are just invited over for dinner. You will never know when you will need that cash and she will be impressed if you have foreseen the unforeseen.
This is very imported. If you do not have you own transport and even if you do, make sure you have the local taxi number in your pocket and your cell phone ready. No female likes walking from point A to point B. Some of us guys may think that we are the strongest and toughest guys on this planet but, you can not protect her from the emotional trauma an attack can cause her.
You may ask why would you need the taxi number if you do have you own transport or if the transport has been taken care of. There is something called a back up plan. You never know what the future hold.
Alcohol is the best drug known to man and a brilliant ice breaker but, don’t ever over do it. Too much alcohol can lead to embarrassment and mistakes. If you are a natural out going person, you don’t need alcohol to break the ice, but if you are inverted, alcohol can make things a lot easier for you.
This is the most difficult rule for some. If you are uptight you and your partner will not communicate properly, and he/she will get the wrong idea about you. Do what you need to do to relax.
Do not lie, lies have a nasty habit of catching up with you and although it may work on the first date, sooner or later, it can and most probably will kill the relationship.
Do not make any jokes or remarks unless you are sure that he/she will catch the true meaning of what you are saying. He/she may take it the wrong way and they will get the wrong idea about you.
Do not pretend to be someone you are not, the best person you can ever be is yourself.
Make sure that you communicate clearly, so that you both can be on the same page all the time. He/she can not read your mind and does not know what your are feeling or thinking.
Trust starts right from the start and is not something that is earned as most people believe. The first thing you must always remember if there is another man or woman in the mix, is that you would not have been there if you where not the front runner.
You should also remember that men know men, and woman know woman. A man can see a man making a move on his girl long before she even knows that a move has been made and the same the other way around.
It is imported that you do not give the other player more attention then they deserves, and do not play with him/her and tease him/her because they do not know that you are teasing. Remember you have just met and it is only your words and actions which can help them to understand you.
Do not over react to the friend of the opposite sex, because this is the oldest trap you can fall into. If you over react and make more of their relationship then what it really is, this friend whom has stood by him/her emotionally and/or financially and/or physically will steal him/her from you.
Please remember most over reactions is grounded in you own insecurities and is most of the time a twisted version of the truth.
If you follow these six golden rules, you chances of success will increase dramatically. How do I know this? I have broken every single rule on this list, and ended up alone, that’s how I know this.
J.H Theart
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